Does Love Make You Speechless, Literally?



Have you ever felt like you can’t describe how you feel, especially when it comes to relationships? It might be because the word simply doesn’t exist in English.

In Psychology Today, Pamela Haag, Ph.D., author of Marriage Confidential, posts the top 10 words she’s discovered to describe how you feel in other languages. Take a look at her list here.

We’ve asked our e-tutors to give us some of their favorite words and expressions related to relationships.  Some have English equivalents and others are harder to define.

 

CHINESE

Love idioms

心心相印  xīn xīn xiāng yìn  to have mutual affinity, be kindred spirits. It literally translates to heat to heart mutual reflection/print, describing the understanding between two people, two hearts.

对你的爱海枯石”  wǒ duì nǐ de ài hǎi kū shí làn   I will love you until  “the seas run dry and the rocks crumble.”  I will love you forever.

比翼双  bǐyì shuāng fēi  to fly together wing to wing, referring to mandarin ducks,  鸳鸯 yuānyāng, which fly in pairs. In Chinese culture yuānyāng represent a life-long couple and are symbols of affection, happiness and fidelity.

Famous lines from ancient Chinese poetry

此情可待成追,只是当时己惘然 cǐ qíng kě dài chéng zhuīyì, zhǐshì dāngshí yǐ wǎngrán  Now, this love is just a memory, back then it was confusing, misunderstood, and unappreciated.  This phrase is used to describe a relationship taken for granted.

身无彩凤双飞翼, 心有灵犀一点通  shēn wú cǎi fèng shuāng fēi yì, xīn yǒu língxī yīdiǎn tōng.  This is one interpretation. “For bodies not fluttering side by side of splendid phoenix wings, Between hearts the one minute thread from root to tip of the magic horn. (The second line is often quoted as meaning a meeting of minds.)” In other words, although two people cannot be together, their hearts will always be connected.

爱着你,就像老鼠爱大米  Àizhe nǐ, jiù xiàng lǎoshǔ ài dàmǐ  Loving you just like mouse loves rice. This is a phrase from a famous song called “Mouse loves Rice” It is originally by Yang Chengang, but Jackie Chan also sings a version. Interestingly, in Western cultures mice love cheese, but in Chinese mice love rice.

 

GERMAN

Unusual verbs to describe ‘to love somebody’

verknallt sein to be smitten, to have a crush [lit: I am banged in you.]

Schmetterlinge im Bauch haben to be happy/excited, usually because you are in love [lit. to have butterflies in the stomach]

Quotes

Alte Liebe rostet nicht. True love never dies. [lit. Old love never rusts.]

Petnames

Schatz, Schatzi, Schätzchen treasure

Spatz, Spätzchen, Spätzle sparrow

Schnuckiputzi cutey-pie

 

ITALIAN

Cotta is the feminine of the adjective cooked (like in well cooked). “Prendere una cotta” is similar to English’s ” to have a crush on somebody” but with strong love feelings involved — usually cotta does not last long.

 

JAPANESE

尻に敷かれる shiri ni shikareru: [lit.Being under the butt.] It expresses a man being under his wife’s thumb, a whipped man.”The butt” here refers to one’s wife’s butt!

 

FRENCH

un coup de foudre or avoir un coup de foudre pour love at first sight or to be lovestruck with. The literal translation is a lighting strike

vivre d’amour et d’eau fraîche Meaning: to live on love alone, to be irresponsible. The literal translation is to live on love and cold water

 poser un lapin to make a rendez-vous with a date and not show up. Literal translation: to put down a rabbit

 ils ne peuvent pas se sentir Meaning: they cannot stand each other. The literal translation is they cannot smell each other

il y a de l’eau dans le gaz Meaning: the relationship is tense, with many problems and disputes Literal translation: there is water in the gas